Sex and The City is one of the favorite TV series of almost every woman, with its stories and dialogues that have not lost their influence over the years. The four female characters that make up the leading role of the series; It is certain that Carrie Bradshaw, Charlotte York, Miranda Hobbes and Samantha Jones taught us many things and created awareness on some issues.
Here are 10 life lessons about our self, love and friendship that we learned from the Sex and the City women!
We don't have to be perfect.
Carrie Bradshaw says: "I will never be a woman who has perfect hair and does not shed anything on her when she wears white." Because we don't have to be. These four female characters, each dealing with completely different problems in their lives, were able to embrace their flaws at the end of the day. They did their best to overlook the flaws of the people they loved as well as their own flaws with their own love. Just like Charlotte approaching her sexually troubled wife, Trey MacDougal, with endless support. Of course, sometimes you need to know how to give up, right?
In a nutshell, neither you, your friend nor your lover need to be perfect. It is enough that the harmony you find together is perfect!
We will never be completely satisfied.
You will always feel like something is missing in your life. Because it will always be like this. Once you have the perfect job, you will pursue the perfect love. Later, you may want to have a baby, while neglecting your career and starting to fight for him again. Perhaps you will be looking for something else. In fact, once you have made a dream come true, you will think about what else could happen to increase your happiness. Life is just that, and it gets all its taste from the hustle and bustle!
We don't have to believe the same things to be close friends with someone.
Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte and Miranda ... each has so many different characters! It wouldn't be wrong to say in particular that Charlotte and Samantha are two opposite poles. Charlotte is a woman who has a tremendous belief in romance and love; On the contrary, Samantha sees these as nonsense. So does this prevent the other from running to help or celebrating a success together when someone has trouble? Of course no. Because all your ideas don't have to be the same to be best friends with someone. The true friendship lies in being able to honestly speak to each other and present different perspectives to each other by maintaining this balance.
Sometimes we have to enjoy solitude too.
Love, dating, sex ... All of this is great, we definitely agree with you. But just because they're perfect doesn't mean you can't be alone from time to time. If the person in your life is not the right person for you, you also have the power to pack your belongings and go. Because you are free enough to take control of your life and strong enough to start things over. Just like Miranda and Charlotte ...
It is quite normal to encounter mistakes while looking for the truth.
The dynamics of every relationship are different. Mr. Big and Carrie also had an ups and downs relationship. These ups and downs sometimes make Carrie say Mr. He even pushed to new dating experiences to forget Big, sometimes to give others a chance. During this time, Carrie met many men who were wrong for her. Like her boyfriend who succumbs to career ambitions! These negativities did not give up and led Carrie to learn lessons for herself. In fact, these wrong people do not know himself as Mr. We could even say it made it even closer to Big.
You may encounter a lot of mistakes along the way while looking for the best for yourself. But at the end of the day, everything will prepare you for the right thing.
We should love ourselves more.
Samantha Jones, who draws attention with her naughty, passionate, candid, brave and sexy features, did not fall in love. Despite this, he ended his troubled relationship with Richard with that iconic phrase: "I love you Richard, but I love myself more." Isn't it a perfect sentence that summarizes that no matter how great your love for someone is, you should not compromise on yourself, that you should value yourself the most?
A man who really wants to be with you will surely find a way.
To Miranda's relationship crisis, Carrie's flirtation at that time Berger gave a shocking explanation: "She doesn't really like you. If we're really interested in a woman, we'll step up. We'll book the next date. We don't send messy messages." Therefore, there are no excuses, barriers or problems for a man who really wants to be with you. Especially in today's technology age!
If he wants to see, he will come and see, if he wants to hear your voice, he will call, and if he really desires you, he will win your heart and open the bedroom doors. Any bilateral relationship that leaves room for "I wonder" can only have toxic traces.
Sometimes we can find happiness in someone other than the man we idealize.
For Charlotte, Trey was the perfect and ideal man. Handsome, successful, sexy ... But their marriage didn't make Charlotte feel that way at all. Divorce lawyer Harry Goldenblatt offered him a happy family. Would charlotte have made this possible? So what about Miranda and Steve that they have nothing in common? Looking at these two characters, it may seem like they are content with less. But on the contrary, it proves that when you put aside some of your idealized things and open your heart to someone, you can set sail for unexpected loves and emotions.
Age is just a number.
What to wear, who you will love, how you will eat, where and how you can dance ... These are not shaped by your age. Age can only describe how experienced you are in this life. It doesn't even have to define it. Not that you live; you are at the age you feel the energy of. You can have the energy to wreak havoc on a 52 year old dress like Samantha!
Friends are definitely worth more than men.
Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte have never been jealous of each other, they have never seen each other as rivals. They sincerely congratulated their achievements, and in their bad moments, supported each other as best they could. Our true foundations and saviors in life are always our best friends. We should never let a man break these strong ties.
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